The grandmother of modern grandsons to be absolutely hard. The Soviet methods of education and leaving sank into the past, and to watch new trends you had no need yet. Therefore it is necessary to look narrowly attentively at innovations and to recognize that the civilization in questions of motherhood and the childhood stepped far ahead.
Cast
Even during pregnancy agree with children in what measure they need your help. Perhaps they want to be engaged in education, and from you only rare visits are necessary. Or children want too much from you in the financial or educational plan. Remember that you already fulfilled a parental duty and any more have to nothing to nobody.
Reconcile to progress
Kind of you were frightened by acquaintances and girlfriends by horrors about modern children's means and mixes, try to reconcile that now all differently. Though baby food the little is worse than some breast milk, treat calmly the recommendations of modern pediatricians to which young parents adhere. For example, it was already a few years ago recognized that it is better to refuse hard swaddling. Be not afraid that the kid will be scratched, for this purpose there are special mittens. And if young mother refuses councils, listen to her arguments. To clash to anything, parents all the same will make everything after the own fashion. An electric swing, car seats, cradles - treat it as to a pleasant bonus in education of grandsons.
Do not try to compete to other grandmother in education. Remember that she has the same right to communicate with the kid, as well as you. You will only upset with the similar conflicts the child who will hesitate of love of less authoritative grandmother. Be not contrary to the principles of education of parents. Always adhere to the uniform line. If mother forbids to eat chocolate, do not contradict. First, it is undermined by the authority of parents. Secondly, you let the child know that you can be manipulated. And the main thing - as a result of such education he will not begin to obey anybody at all, skillfully deceiving both those, and others. You learn to understand the child. If you do not like something in behavior of the grandson, criticize his acts delicately. Try to be to it the friend, but not the strict supervisor. Mutual understanding will help out you in the relations with the kid still more than once. Try to be aware of in what the grandson is interested. Of course, there is no need to penetrate into subtleties of computer games. But try to understand at least, than important for it any given occupation. Try to help the child with his infinite opposition to the adult world. Meet halfway where it does not break serious borders. For example, buy the ticket for the popular movie, you reduce it in boulig, give money for a gift to the girl. Often grandmothers provide to grandsons financial aid, and in it there is nothing shameful. But you remember that excessive overindulgence will not do the child good.