Very widespread life situation when the beautiful butterfly, having married, turns not into a caterpillar, not into a cocoon. It it is possible to avoid and remain interesting to the husband.
Instruction
1. If you just married, then it will be useful to you to read it on the future. At the first stage arm with the handle and paper and accurately set to yourself the tasks: 1. to improve or change external vid2. to improve and develop internal mir3. to change and improve communication with the husband.
2. Men are visual, and therefore become again pleasant to his eye. Refuse shabby home clothing. Buy a new set (and it is better two at once).
3. Buy the subscription to the gym. Even if it seems to you that you have on it no time at all, it is only illusion. Refuse favourite series or get up at one o'clock earlier. Reduce time which you spend on cooking (prepare food for 3 days at once - soup and couple of main courses, and garnishes are preparing quickly). Be not afraid that it will not be pleasant to the spouse, a habit - a matter of time. It is necessary just to explain to him that you want to remain young and healthy, and for this purpose physical exercises are necessary for you. Entrust to your husband a part of household chores. Let at least once in a week takes away or takes away the child from school or from section. And even if the child for want of habit will be upset or something will forget spouses from the list necessary for occupations in a circle - nothing terrible. Over time both the father, and your kid will get used to a new daily routine, and everything that is necessary for occupations, you can buy in advance and put in a backpack. Having come to the fitness center, do not wait for lightning results. Just postpone in the head that it is now a component of your life which will give you not only beauty, but also good health and joy. When in few weeks you feel empowered, and in few months the clothes on you will begin to dangle, you will smile to the reflection in a mirror, and the world will seem to you is much lighter and is more friendly. But do not forget also about healthy nutrition.
4. Change the image. Do other hair. Let before it there will be ""other woman"" now - not that to which he got used. And he on new will look at you. Visit the cosmetologist, a sunbed.
5. On improvement of inner world it is possible to speak much and long, but the main idea is simple. Perceive the hours spent behind viewing telecasts which in vain spend your time and ""melt off"" a brain, not as pleasant rest, and as the hours and days which are thrown out by you on a garbage can or as bad habit. If at once it is impossible to throw, replace one series with reading the book. Let at first it will be something easy. The main thing, accustom themselves to read. Then to you will be about what to talk to your man. Go online, learn what new movies appeared and as people speak of them. Download, buy and look one. Read comments on him, criticism. And then suggest the husband to look together. Also you speak with the husband, discuss, show him you - the conceiving being. It will be pleasant to you, will tighten you because our brain loves all new and trains as well as muscles.
6. Well and the last in our list is an improvement of quality of your communication with the husband. Here all methods are good. It both sex, and joint sorties on the nature or at cinema, and romantic evenings by candlelight with its favourite dishes and your evening dress. The main thing is not to go too far. It is not necessary to try to make everything and at once. And then to take offense that the husband did not understand. Accustom him gradually to silk sheets, to the starched napkins and candles of times a week, to bought on a concert (or on soccer why is not present?) to tickets, to offers to go to a skating rink or on skis to the forest all family. They say, the habit is developed in forty days. It not long. The main thing is not to recede and not to be given.