Many women prefer to take a waiting attitude, hoping for a happy occurence when the man pays attention to them and will take the first step to rapprochement. Most likely the reason for that – the behavior stereotypes put by society or the wrong education. You should not hope that your fate will be as happily as at modest women from favourite melodramas. In a reality everything develops much more prosy. Art of communication needs to study. The first steps will be absolutely simple.
Smile
The smile will be the first small short step in forming of the relations. But do not doubt, reception smoothly works even if your meetings are fleeting and last absolutely not for long, for example, you together go by the share taxi in the mornings. The lovely sincere smile will dispose it to you surely, it not only will make your person is more attractive, but also will allocate it from the mass of other people who are most often anxious and serious.
And it is absolutely guilty to go with a gloomy face if you are colleagues or just often you are in one company, you visit the gym or together you study. Smile to it openly, friendly as to loved dear one. It is possible not only to draw with this way attention of the man, but also to promptly reduce distance between you. Check in practice – the smile is more effective, than smart plans of seduction. But do not forget that we need not a smile of politeness, and demonstration (very modest, be not frightened) "green light" for it in forming of the relations. Show that you give it the chance to take the first step.
Prove
Do not hide the talents, show them surely. If you are colleagues or together you study, then occasions for this purpose precisely will not be a little. On any office party or a party show the abilities. If you well sing – sing, you dance – execute dance if there are no such abilities, then surely prove in competitions (which you can organize). If your elect the neighbor, then if desired it is possible to surprise also him: part a winter garden or decorate a staircase by a holiday. Drawing attention of the man in such a way you remember: it is only necessary to do what you well are able to do. Only this way you will feel freedom and confidence. Men appreciate such women, and at the same time they have a natural desire to win them.
Help
To draw attention of the man, appeal to it about the help. Of course, you understand, it by all means has to be from the category of what he is able to do. It can be anything what he understands. It is possible to ask to install the program on the computer, to clean it from viruses, to fix the printer, can be to change janitors at the car. The most important – your sincere gratitude, gratitude for the help without which you would not cope with a situation in any way. Also do not apply to learn whether it is possible to address with a similar request if necessary once again.
The bet is almost always sure, the nature created men such that they willingly show the force, helping the weak woman. And the more the woman gives opportunities to feel necessary, the male shoulders finish more. Also keep in mind that the more it is enclosed by the man in the woman, the more he will appreciate her.
Feed him
Drawing attention of the man, do not forget about the shortest way to his heart. Feed him. Tasty. The occasion will be always. Even in gratitude for the rendered service. If together you work – it is always possible to bring the pastries made with own hand. Women who cook well have always more chances to win attention of the man. Homemade food subconsciously returns the man in the childhood, reminding of feeling of safety which many men expect from the darling.
Make a mistake
Make a mistake and allow it to find it. For example, "unintentionally" send it the e-mail directed to the girlfriend. Were mistaken, well to whom does not happen. Let the letter will be the most innocent contents, some cheerful history which happened to you, perhaps on a travel or in the gym. The main thing that in the message there should not be a negative, neither about you, nor about any of other people at all. The faint smile and embarrassment for reading of someone else's letter – only such emotions have to be at the addressee.
After a while the addressee has to receive from you the second message with apologies supposedly forgive for misunderstanding, the mistake left. Except embarrassment the shake-up will give it feeling of a master of the situation. Now he knows about you a little more, than owed.
Taking a step, you only try to attract attention men, to express sympathy. Quite often it happens that the man has enough here such unostentatious signals from the woman that a further initiative to show most. And often this step is the only way to be distinguished from a round dance of colleagues, colleagues. How was, do not wait, begin to act!