Not always the girl lives dreams of a marriage. Except the device of family life the women can have also other plans in life. And happens and so that the person who makes a proposal of marriage, at all not that with whom there is a wish to go on life hand in hand. Anyway, if the offer to marry is received, and you are not going to accept it, it is necessary to be at proper words not to offend the man.
Instruction
1. Anyway at the reply to the offer you should not be rude and offend the person, this your reaction can strongly wound the unlucky applicant. There are, of course, superficial people who already in about three hours will make the same proposal to other woman. To refuse such "happiness", reduce it to a joke or try to represent misunderstanding.
2. If you are simply not sure, it is necessary to marry to you at present or not, ask the man to give you time for reflection. There is nothing shameful in such reasonable approach to the solution of a serious question. It will only add plus to your advantages, will show your wisdom and judiciousness.
3. Having made the final decision not to marry this applicant, think over the answer. Insincere and clumsy words will cause long inquiries and will give to the man hope. Explain that just did not want to have a good time and play him feelings. Tell that hoped for emergence of deep sincere feeling, but something was missing.
4. Only do not laugh and do not scoff at the person in front of friends and acquaintances. It does not show your superiority, only at all – vanity and nonsense. All problems in the personal relations have to be solved alone.
5. Let know to the man that you had new ideas about your future life, and you want to turn them into reality. Tell that decided to continue/finish/get second higher education. It is possible to explain your refusal with desire to see the world and to understand itself.
6. Not the fact that you will lighten after the refusal. Perhaps, you will be tormented by uncertainty and pity. But it was your decision therefore safely walk forward in the future. Perhaps, your destiny waits for you behind the next turn of the street.