The relations between the husband and the wife can change over time. And not always these changes to the best. Lyubov can unintentionally appear suddenly when you do not wait for it, and also to disappear unexpectedly from heart.
Why there passed the love
The woman appears in a difficult situation when former feelings which had to the husband passed. There is no more spark, there is no passion, there is nothing. It is difficult to collect thoughts in the head and to decide to report about it to the husband. First of all it is terrible to wound the person, it is not known how he will behave: will begin to swear, will be depressed, will begin to threaten.
For a start the woman has to define the reason why there were such changes in the relations with the husband. Perhaps, the everyday routine, absence of children, misunderstanding, dissatisfaction with sexual life, material problems resulted in dissonance and fading of feelings. It is important to understand for himself whether it is possible to recreate again that euphoria which reigned in the first years of joint life. It is not obligatory to announce parting at once. Between spouses trusting relationship has to be established. It is necessary to be able to conduct dialogue with each other and always to discuss pressing problems that they were not saved from year to year. It is possible to make joint efforts so that love fire which went out was kindled again.
The reason in other man
It is possible that the reason that the woman stopped loving the husband is in other man. Nobody is insured from similar cases. Sometimes the love which seemed eternal and immense passes because of the third person. A classical situation when the woman lacked attention from the husband, and it was ready to give everything again to feel desired, necessary. And other man became this "lifebuoy".
Suitable time that to tell everything
If the final decision on parting is made, it is necessary to choose suitable time that it is quiet to explain everything to the husband. It is necessary to hold off such decision if the husband stays in a condition of professional crisis, it is seriously sick. If remained between spouses though a respect drop, then you should not finish it the recognitions. Anyway it is possible to make everything as it is possible more softly and more correctly not to injure the person. It is worth remembering that the bitter truth is better than a lie. Every day it is heavy to wake up with the unloved person. This real test. If the husband really loves the wife, he will notice changes in her behavior at once. It is in that case better not to hide, and to tell everything as is. It is easier to make the decision on parting, when there is no general children because there is no additional responsibility.