It is known that men value the personal liberty, and therefore do not hurry to marry. Often some of them revel in a free way of life before that, having even met the girl suitable for a role of the spouse, do not hurry to make it the proposal.
The reasons for which the man does not hurry to marry
There is a question interesting many girls: "When the man decides that it is time for it to marry?" Of course, in this case the behavior of the man depends on model of family which he adopted, on education, its image in lives, attitudes, values and other factors.
The man understand that the marriage is serious changes, the beginning of family life where now he should play a new role of the spouse, defender, supporter. There is a set of duties, on it responsibility lays down, new restrictions and rules appear.
These circumstances frighten off some men, and therefore they prefer to live so-called "civil marriage", understanding that as a last resort they can stop the relations with the girl without serious consequences. Men understand that registering official marriage, they already hardly to decide on the section of property, payment of alimony and other unpleasant procedures at marriage disintegration. Thus, the man who made official proposal to the bride emphasizes the serious intentions. He realizes that the girl who is with it now deserves the status of his spouse, he is ready to carry out with her all life. There is an opinion that when the girl insists on a wedding and adduces such arguments as "You love me, we have to get married", the man hears only "I am your last girl in the world, except me at you more will be nobody".
The reasons for which the man thinks of marriage
Meeting the girl suitable for a role of the woman with which it would connect the life not similar to his former partners he also thinks of creation of family. Confidence of the man is that his girl will be for him a beautiful spouse and mother of his children, forces it to marry it. The man in love who is afraid to lose the darling also decides to make her the proposal. In certain cases the man makes offer to the girl who accidentally became pregnant from him. Till certain time the man values the independence, but over time understands that he is not enough for it constancy, warm-heartedness, comfort, stability. Certainly, the man understands that it is time for it to marry when he thinks of children, of homeliness. When he understands that former entertainments do not give it pleasure, in particular, change of partners, the rapid relations and another. As a rule, most of men begin to think of marriage after a striking example of their close friends who decided to marry. He comes to married friends on a visit and understands that marriage is not a trap which the woman for whom marriage – end in itself arranges.