What it is necessary to make that the child removed toys into place, filled the bed, carried away candy wrappers in a wastebasket? Parents begin is angry and to consider an invention a senseless waste of time. There are ways which will help to bring up assistants.
It is necessary to impart love for an order from juvenile age. In the teenage period to develop discipline not easy. Many mothers and children's psychologists share productive secrets. Methods are used in practice.
Authoritative example
Any method in education of children begins with the words "Begin with Itself and Be an Example".
It seems that all forces are thrown in vain and the child just does not adopt parental "good habits", it is not necessary to be upset. It is developed over the years. To joyful surprise, they will carry out duties without assignment and manuals with age. And in days of joint clear-out, running "tail" for mom, the child will ask about additional work for it. He wants to resemble parents.
Motivation
Children of any age want quality of kind heroes. Explain that it is important to be responsible and diligent. It is in the future good to be the master of favourite business. It is necessary to give examples: the fairy tale "Cinderella" for little girls, the favourite animated film "Fixicles" for boys.
And will help to lighten the mood to the child during cleaning music.
Tasks by the child's opportunities
It is better to divide all obligations for the house between family members to avoid indignation of the child. For example, if earlier footwear was put on shelves by adults then why today demand it from the kid.
Children need to give work it can do. First of all, safe. The vacuum cleaner and so forth - only under your control.
Let more often does the work without your every minute instructions in the future to fulfill a habit and tactics of performance. It is gradually possible to complicate tasks. Let everything will be step by step.
Without whip and with gingerbread
If the child every time badly performs the work, it is not necessary to shout and criticize, and in the presence of the kid not to redo his works.
Badly washes the dishes? Perhaps, is afraid to break and "obtain" punishment which needs to be excluded from the plan. Work has to improve, but not cause fear and contempt.
Praise – best "gingerbread" for the done work.
From experience of the childhood it is necessary only to remember with a smile the "lost" spoons in secluded places.
Radical method. Carefully!
Start it extremely seldom, but mothers claim that a way effective.
The storage of toys is not only brand new entertainments, but also gathering of spare parts from machines and "bodies" of dolls. Children leave them reluctantly, in hope that spare parts will be useful or the toy very much was pleasant earlier.
Also no arrangements and manipulations help - everything lies on former places.
How did famous Madonna do? Threw out the daughter's toys in a trash can.
It, of course, too, it is possible to run into an hour hysterics. But it is worth trying to use this method and to explain that room has to it is made for new toys. Over time the child himself will get rid of things unnecessary it.
It is not necessary to overstrain also itself and the child. During cleaning it is possible to afford also to the kid rest behind viewing the favourite animated film. If there is a favourite hobby, then it is worth allowing to devote a half-hour to favourite business for unloading.
To put all forces and heart and soul in children is a parental calling.