To start life anew sometimes happens it is extremely necessary. However it should not turn into escape from already come true negative events. Trying to change the life in such circumstances, the person wants to forget about the past, he runs from himself, it is similar to flight from the sinking ship without lifebuoy. To begin new life really extremely hard, but it is quite possible.
Forget about the past and lead full life
Try to forget about last negative events in the life. To make it in the most correct way you can be helped by the psychologist. To forget last events very difficult, however, as a rule, the person can remember only good therefore over time, at you by means of professionals everything will turn out. Begin to lead full life. Just do what most of all is pleasant to you. Remember that life is short, and it is given to the person only once, make so that it is the best of all to live it.
Stop to complain of life, it will only force to see people around in you only negative sides, you will be boring and flabby. Communicate only with positive and cheerful people, they will support in you positive thoughts.
Do not do what is not pleasant to you
Take the sheet of paper and write down the list of things which you do not like to do. Attentively study it and try to cease to do them. It does not mean that, for example, it is necessary to stop going to school only because you do not like to study, but if you do not like your work, you can consider the possibility to change it for another. If you have no opportunity to make similar changes, try to find positive sides of what you have, look for a way to make them more significant. For example, if you do not like to houseclean, do it it is completely realized, turn this process into a meditation ceremony. You will be surprised to tranquility of the mind and pleasure which you will begin to get from the work.
Be economical
You watch the finance, you should not leave money with ease even if you very kind person also are ready to help everyone who will ask your help. If you want to begin new life in the new city or even the country, you need to learn to manage the movement of the money. You have to count the expenses in advance, do not lead up yourself before to be left without money in the stranger to you the place.
Remain the realist
Any changes in life are given to the person hardly, do not try to introduce in it too many changes, it can result in boomerang effect. The first positive changes can be leveled by new problems. For example, the attempt at the same time to leave off smoking, lose weight, is, etc. doomed to do sports on a failure, you will overflow yourself, thus, very heavy work. If you set for yourself a number of important tasks which have to change your life, solve them gradually, having placed previously priorities.