The popular wisdom says "beauty is not happiness …" But what it is told in the second part of a proverb about, perhaps, will be more difficult than attractiveness. To be born happy, to be exact that to become difficult, under cargo of daily cares, alarms, difficulties. However who as not parents will help the girl to understand that happiness is in us, and depends on external factors a little.
Instruction
1. Raise daughters samootsenkustarayas to bring up the child according to the latest systems and high standards, parents quite often go too far with criticism. What is perceived by you as an innocent joke seems to the girl cruel ridiculing. Do not criticize the daughter how much in vain, especially avoid condemnation in the presence of her friends. Be guided by the rule which was output by Carnegie: "Be sincere in the estimates and are generous on a praise". Especially sharply girls perceive criticism of the appearance. Even if now it "ugly duckling", do not focus attention on it. Otherwise, external data will change, and the feeling of own unattractiveness will remain with it for the rest of life.
2. Develop it talantynichto so does not promote search of as creative activity. Sign up the daughter on dances, gymnastics, in art or music school. Do not insist on the choice of any given direction, give to the girl the chance to independently choose that by it to liking. You show consideration for its creative rushes, do not refuse to listen to the song composed by the daughter or to read the poem written by it. Even if the work is far from perfect, find for what to praise.
3. Be interested it chuvstvamischastliv the one who is happy at home, spoke in the ancient time. Also were right. Ability to build up the relationship with the relatives – pledge of the comfortable and quiet atmosphere in family. Sometime your girl herself will become a hostess, and on her shoulders care not only of purity and a cosiness, but also the psychological atmosphere in the house will lay down. It is good if she since childhood learns to speak openly about the feelings, will learn to understand other people, to listen to them, to make a compromise. Do not wave away from its problems even if they seem to you trifling. Remember yourself in the adolescence: parting with the admirer or a quarrel with the girlfriend seemed doomsday. Let the girl will learn to endure all sides of the relations with people, otherwise she will become closed and will begin to hesitate of own feelings.