Imitation adults is peculiar to the child therefore in the families using offensive language from children it is often possible to hear abusive words. But not only the family influences the speech of the child – children and teenagers learn often obscene words in the yard, at school, in kindergarten or just on the street. How to deal with this problem depending on age of the child?
Age of the child to 5 letv this age the child not always understands that he says therefore it is better to turn to a bad word a deaf ear. If to focus attention on a mat, the child will understand that it is a forbidden fruit, and it, as we know, is sweet. When the child realizes that swear words enrage parents, he begins to use them for manipulation therefore it is not necessary to react violently, it is only necessary to make so that at least in the house this word did not sound from lips of adults - the child soon will forget it.
Age from 5 to 7 years
At this age it is possible to arrive, as well as in the first case – to ignore the heard swear word, but the problem is that the child begins to be interested in a word meaning. In such situation it is necessary not to swear and not to punish the child, and to explain to him that a word very offensive and it is impossible to use it in a conversation. It is possible to ask from where the child learned an abusive word to draw for himself the corresponding conclusions.
Children 7-12 letv this period of growing the child seeks to be more abruptly and more interestingly than the friends. Use of a mat is one of ways to prove, stand out from the crowd. Difficult age, but scandals it is not necessary to make. It is possible to pretend that you are upset, but at the same time it is necessary to explain that intelligent and well-mannered people do not use such words. Repetition of abusive words at this age has to be stopped by punishment – deprivation of walks, the TV or computer games. letv this age of school students it is already possible to call age from 12 to 16 teenagers, but not children, but it does not mean that they can use a mat as informal conversation. Most often the child uses strong language only when it, according to him, is admissible – in the company of friends or schoolmates, and in the house follows certain rules. If mats are said is almost unceasing, it is necessary to sound the alarm – perhaps the teenager in such a way tries to draw attention of parents who are too busy or another matters. It is not necessary to punish at once the teenager as it can only aggravate a problem and alienate the child even more.