It is difficult to achieve obedience from the child, but there is nothing impossible. For overcoming this obstacle it is necessary to understand the reason of bad behavior first of all.
Instruction
1. Try to find the reason of disobedience of the child. To cope with bad behavior often happens very difficult. In most cases disobedience of the child demonstrates that the behavior of parents stretches a point. Parents have to coordinate the actions at education of the kid. Often happens that, for example, the father allows something to do to the child, and mom against it and, having seen, than is engaged the kid, forbids it to these to be engaged. The inconsistency conducts to a contradiction. The child is lost and does not know to whom to listen. For this reason he continues to do what wants, without paying attention to the bans. It cannot be allowed at all.
2. Do not forbid the kid to be engaged in what before he did not do. So it happens that mom says, for example, that it is impossible to climb on the bookshelf. The child in this respect even never, but as paid his attention to it thought, a peculiar reflex will work. The kid anyway will want to try to get on the forbidden shelf.
3. Over time the child begins to cease to be afraid of punishment threat. It is connected with the fact that parents often intimidate the kid. But when that will be guilty, punishment is not carried out, and remains only threat. Feeling the impunity, the child in own way regards this gesture of "mercy" and continues to do everything that to it will like.
4. Learn to control the emotions. If promised that you will punish, it is necessary to finish business. Then the child will have a sense of responsibility for deeds. Over time the kid will define for himself a framework of permitted and will begin to obey you.