In modern families of relationship between parents and children often are built by democratic principle, however some families still adhere to authoritative type of education at which the will of the child is in hands of parents. Anyway both approaches are not capable to prevent the problems waiting each parent at certain stages of life.
Instruction
1. Parents and the child are a single whole, a peculiar system in which gears and nuts are replaced with emotions and empathy. Therefore difficulties of one of family members, in particular the kid, become the general for each her member. Often difficulties in family arise at the crisis moments of development of the child. One of the first difficult periods is the age about two-three years. At this time the child refuses to obey mom and dad, shows negativism, willfulness, obstinacy. The activity of the kid during this period reads off scale. In behavior the parents face such sudden change rather painfully as they do not know what to do with such pressure of energy. However you should not consider similar behavior of the kid as "wrong". It is absolutely natural stage of development during which it is worth holding as much as possible outdoor games, to walk with the child more often and to try not to avoid communication with peers. This period just needs to be worried.
2. The second crisis moment – the beginning of school training. At this stage it is necessary to make sure whether the child is ready to enter public life in which he should come into contact with schoolmates and the teacher. It is also necessary to pay attention to intellectual opportunities of the child. Otherwise he can experience difficulties in training and not manage to master the training program.
3. The third crisis moment notes the most saturated by problems and difficulties the period – teenage. At this time the teenager moves away from parents, gets the interests absolutely far from family life. Love dramas inflame in young hearts, there are new hobbies. Children late come back home, get doubtful friends. Similar surprises surprise actually every day parents, thereby causing a set of conflict situations in which any of the parties cannot find understanding.
4. Modern parents face a set of problems just as their own parents, generation earlier. Problems do not change the character, approach to their permission only changes. However present parents very often cannot give to the child that reference point on which it will follow on life, a peculiar anchor which it will hold. Especially it is worth paying attention to it before teenage age, otherwise then something will late change.