In a certain measure, achievement of vital progress (in different cultures it is understood differently) depends, including, and from individual charisma of the personality. Understand as this word certain personal (including. and sexual) magnetism, that is ability of any given person to attract to itself other people, to convince them, to influence them and to operate them, subordinating to the will (absolutely not very well, softly and gradually or in a directive way and authoritatively). Of course, people are allocated with this quality not equally, however a certain share of charisma allocated everyone.
It is necessary to notice that the magnetism of the personality can be developed, increasing power of thought. With the certain strength and concentration of people it is capable to make almost impossible and to broadcast (sometimes being even silent) the thoughts, involving people around in the power field. Of course, for this purpose it is necessary to have strong will and strength of mind.
How to develop personal magnetism?
For this purpose it is necessary "to grow", that is thoroughly to be engaged in creation of own harmonious personality. The harmonious person surely (it is possible to tell, automatically) attracts other people. He not only can involve them in the power field and operate them, such people are loved.
In more detail about personal harmony
Each person has a spirit, soul and a body. All three components have to be brought to a harmony state. It is necessary to develop continuously, carefully analyzing itself, occurring and observed.
In the western psychology, in various east exercises and even in traditions of primitive cultures various ways of achievement of personal harmony, increase in personal and sexual magnetism are described. Everyone can choose that is closer to it. Different people suit different methods.
In all practicians it is possible to allocate three very important points.
- Each person wishing to increase the personal magnetism, that is, to strengthen the spirit and to develop mental force has to endure experience of rather long loneliness. It can be considered somewhat spiritual initiation.
- Everyone who wishes to become strong in spirit has to come up against a situation of overcoming serious vital difficulties and cease to be afraid of death.
- To broadcast a thought, not only high concentration and depth, but also lucidity of mind is necessary. Who clearly thinks, it is clear states. For this purpose it is not enough to be impartial. It is necessary to be able to analyze, it is necessary to be able to look at a situation other eyes and from different positions. That is, it is necessary to be able to be discharged of a subject of a thought (to be alienated, not to experience emotions and passions).
In general, the thinking should be cultivated. It is necessary to learn to think. Besides, of course, it is necessary to develop intelligence. And still the thought has to be flexible. The person wishing to influence others has to be able to be guided quickly in a situation.
Still an important point for the person wishing to increase charisma. It is necessary to be able to look in a certain way. It concerns appearance, perfume, clothes, plasticity and dynamics of movements. Also it concerns a voice and ability to speak. Work on yourself, read the corresponding literature, analyze any materials on a subject, self-improve, and you, definitely, will achieve improvements.
Many people have quite natural question: how to be protected from magnetic influence of others?
Protection against magnetism
The best way to be protected from magnetism of other personality is to have own magnetism. As we already know, for this purpose it is necessary to work seriously and constantly on itself.
Well, and how to be protected from influence of others in a practical situation?
- Before to make something according to foreign team or the hint, well think and analyze. Imagine consequences of the actions. Go on the agreement, only if you consider it reasonable and necessary.
- When you something are told, explain or convince of something, pay attention and to the meaning of a statement, and to tone. To nothing and nobody take a word.
- The attempt of other person to operate you is the offer of a game. If you feel that you are weaker than the opponent, try to be dissolved in surrounding, pretend to be, for example, a tree (that is, present yourself a tree, well or something to others), present that at you in the head it is absolutely empty that cast iron or cotton wool there. Try to seem sillier, than is, pretend that you do not understand, demand explanations. Such actions will give you time for assessment of the situation.
And in general, learn to refuse and hold the ground. For this purpose it is necessary just to realize himself the free and independent person.
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