Children's types of aggression: aggressor and victim

Children's types of aggression: aggressor and victim

Children are divided into aggressors and the victims. Anyway, both it is bad. Once the child explains what is bad and what is good. Always it is necessary to look for the reason of such behavior in a conversation with the child.

Aggressors cannot control this feeling, it is beyond permitted and suffers from it as an aggressor whom it destroys, and the people surrounding it. Usually it is squabblers and teases. They aggressively treat tutors, children and all who under a hand will get to them. Children begin it to be afraid, and the child the tease remains one, all avoid it. This discharge angers the kid even more, he becomes uncontrollable in words and actions. Fault to such behavior is the inattention from adults, neglect requests, ignoring of children's requirements. It is only one party of a coin. The second type - the sufferer. All offend him, he has no friends, the child is avoided. The reasons for that a set - one of them: the child consider weak and incapable to hit back. People are on friendly terms with those who are similar to them. And the others are despised which though something are not similar to the others.There are quiet children who having taken courage, begin to call others offensive words, nobody wants to be on friendly terms with them. In return, mother can talk to the child and explain that it is necessary to show respect and sympathy for people. If the child suffers from communication in children's collective, mother has to talk to tutors in what there can be a reason, try to find out from the kid, perhaps, in this garden are hostile to it.

Then transfer to other group will become the decision. If the child falls a victim of squabblers, he is beaten, it is necessary to take urgent measures, will meet and to discuss his behavior with parents of the conflict kid aggressor. It is not necessary to provoke the child to rendering retaliation at all, but also you should not tease with the weakling too.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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