How to react if the friend did not invite to birthday

How to react if the friend did not invite to birthday

Birthday – a holiday which gathers the closest friends and relatives. Unfortunately, the invitation sometimes expected from the birthday boy does not come. In this case it is possible to work differently.

Make sure thatMake sure that the invitation from the friend really did not arrive. Verify your accounts in social networks, electronic mailboxes and look whether there are no passed calls or messages on the mobile phone. Perhaps, the friend chose an unusual way to invite to the birthday, and you accidentally missed the invitation. Talk also to those whom the birthday boy invited to the holiday. Learn how they received the invitations.

Perhaps, the birthday boy did not call you for birthday because you are his close friend and do not need the invitation to this holiday. If you well communicate and do not conceal any offenses at each other, just try to come to it to birthday together with all guests. It is unlikely it will be against it.

Sometimes friends check each other for fidelity. Perhaps, your companion wanted to look whether you remember such important date as his birthday, and whether you will come to congratulate him without reminder. If you doubt what will relevant come to it without invitation, call the friend and congratulate him on a holiday. Take an interest as he is going to celebrate a celebration, and ask permissions also to be present not it. Perhaps, the friend just was ashamed to invite you and waited until you start a conversation about it. Remember whether there were between you no disputes and quarrels lately. If you were guilty of something before the friend and did not ask for it forgiveness, he quite could keep offense and "recoup" what not to call you for the birthday. Perhaps, it occurred even on his last birthday, and since then at it desire to invite you to similar actions was gone. Call it or visit personally, having apologized for the caused offenses. Most likely, the friend will be glad to resume communication with you again and will invite to a holiday. Do not quarrel at all and do not sort out the relations with the friend if he did not invite you to birthday. If you value your friendship, you should not put an end to it because of one offense of the person. Perhaps, on it there were reasons which he cannot just call. It will be best of all to continue to communicate as earlier. Also do not forget to invite the friend to your birthday. Perhaps, he will remember that he forgot at the time about you, and further will not make such mistake any more. At the same time you will be appreciated kindness and ability to forgive offenses.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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