The beginning of visit of kindergarten for the child – a new big stage in life. These are big changes, new situation in family and new collective. In that, how smoothly will pass for the child an accustoming stage to kindergarten, a big share of responsibility of parents.
The relation to kindergarten and its visit at the child is formed even prior to his visit. It occurs according to parents, proceeding from their stories. The relation of parents to kindergarten and tutors forms the child's relation in advance. Of course, it is the best of all if parents can choose kindergarten for the child that which is pleasant to them. In terms of material resources, group of tutors and all the rest. But often happens so that parents actually have no choice, and it is necessary to send the child to that garden in which there is an opportunity. And not always it is pleasant to parents. But even on condition of negative attitude of parents it is necessary to avoid to speak about it at the child. Even if the child is busy with the affairs, and parents discuss some affairs, you should not think that the child hears nothing at this time.
It is the best of all if parents can take active part in life of kindergarten. Participation in holding some actions of pleasure or informative character, in visits of the museum or trips to excursions is possible. The child himself will participate in everything also everything much more actively to be interested if before eyes a bright example of parents.
Not all parents, of course, have time and opportunities for similar activity. But time for communication with the tutor to find much more simply. The good attitude to the tutor will feed also the child's attitude towards him. And to go to a garden where the tutor – the person pleasant and interesting – is much simpler and more cheerful. Besides and tutors – ordinary people. And in spite of the fact that children for the tutor are on an equal footing, nevertheless the human factor has the weight and if the tutor treats parents kindly, it is quite possible and the child it will concern a little more loyally, than the others. Therefore in the child's relations with tutors and a garden the parents most often see the reflection. And if they want to change the child's relation to a garden, then and it is necessary to begin to parents with itself.