The world in family depends not only on that, how strongly the husband and the wife love each other, but also and how they are brought up and what temperaments at them. In some families noisy dismantling with shouts and abuse - a usual thing that badly affects the atmosphere in the house what both parents, and children suffer from. In any difficult family situation it is possible to solve case by peaceful manner, without making scandal.
Instruction
1. You learn to prevent scandal if you see that the situation between you and the husband is heated, but business did not reach shouts yet. It is sometimes cleverer to concede and keep silent, having waited, so far you and the spouse will calm down. And already then to start the reasonable and considered conversation.
2. Remember that you live in civilized society. It is ugly when your abuse is heard by neighbors in the floor. Also ugly scenes of family squabbles in front of children look. Mentality of the child weak and unbalanced. Quarrels between parents can put a trauma to his moral health.
3. To get rid of a habit to make scandals without serious occasion, think up together with the husband of punishment for it: you did not keep - you do clear-out of the house, it became the initiator - the dinner prepares week and washes the dishes. Punishment has to be unshakable, notable and be executed without any indulgences.
4. Set a positive example to the children, they adopt behavior model of parents. Observing the aggressive relation of mother and father to each other, the child will begin to apply aggression to peers.
5. Learn to control yourself. Lead rough negative feelings or the accumulated negative emotions to scandal. Be able to restrain, be above a showdown with voices raised. Present how your family quarrel from outside looks. For certain, not really beautifully.
6. If you in bad mood also feel that you are ready to pass at any time to shout and a showdown, be engaged some in affairs or walk. Bad mood - not an occasion to carp at people around.
7. Sort out together with the husband the reasons of scandals. If you swear because of money, try to re-plan the family budget. If the cause of quarrels in jealousy, then you learn to trust each other. Any cause for scandal can be removed a peaceful manner if to try to do it together, after all, you with the husband - a whole.