Parents, colleagues and darling will not manage to replace the best friend. Tu which can entrust all the secrets, to have a good cry and fun. But the strong friendly relations include not only the joyful moments. It and the continuous work over allowing to remain the close girlfriend for other person.
Instruction
1. Be able to rejoice for the girlfriend. You can be angry to progress of other people while your affairs go not really, but when the girlfriend says to you that she was raised at work, and the spouse plans to present it for birthday the car, you are obliged to be glad together with the person dear to you.
2. Be a good listener. Even if the girlfriend for the tenth time complains of the petty tyrant chief, it is necessary to listen to her and whenever possible to give advice. Obviously, the situation at office really strains it, time it constantly tells about this problem. Think that once to you there can be too trouble which you will be repeatedly and in all details to paint to this girl.
3. Do not try to develop telepathic abilities in the girlfriend. If you took offense or upset, tell about it directly, but do not wait when she guesses. If you, having endured a break with the guy, kept ringing all day to the girlfriend in search of sympathy, and she left phone at home, you should not shout in rage that all betrayed you. Though such situation is also unpleasant, but the girlfriend could not know that you will have a trouble, and for certain and itself is upset with the fact that she did not manage to give you support.
4. Many people in the head have a certain ideal image of the best friend. Dig it more deeply and do not try on on already existing person with the developed character. The ideal best friend is honest and noble, he is always ready to come to the rescue, he will find the answer to the offender, will reconcile you with the guy, will carry out on the closed party, will repair the laptop and will be in touch 24 hours a day to have an opportunity to learn, how are you doing. Real people in life have interests and needs, they are busy, are ill or just stay in bad mood.
5. Respect yourself. Be an interesting personality, constantly broaden horizons. The girlfriend has to not only feel your support and enjoy it. To good girlfriends has to be mutually cheerfully and communicate interestingly. And then your friendship will exist for many years.