In marriage the man and the woman are obliged to fulfill the conjugal duty, however the schedule of intimate life is established by already spouses. At the same time some women feel the need for sex more often than their husbands that can lead to emergence of disagreements and problems in family.
Instruction
1. Learn the relation to sex of your husband. Some men prefer to be engaged in it a certain number of times per week or even in a month. Of course, it can not always please the spouse whom more often the proximity wants with the husband, however if you love your man, it is worth accepting at least at the beginning his small requirements and to fulfill a conjugal duty when it is wanted by the spouse. Perhaps, over time he nevertheless will begin to pay you more attention.
2. Try to treat sex less seriously. Matrimonial life is very different, and for certain there is also something else that unites you, forces to love each other and to spend time with pleasure together. Try to do to the husband pleasant in other ways, for example, well to cook, observe purity and an order in the house, to look after the spouse, to give it support, etc. Over time you will see that intimate life receded for you into the background.
3. Set long-term goals for yourself and you seek for their achievement. For example, it is possible to concentrate attention on career, to be engaged in improvement of the appearance and a figure. It will help you to distract from constant desire of intimate proximity and to put efforts on the right track.
4. Try to cease to idealize the husband if nothing helps to distract from thoughts of it. Most likely, it has shortcomings causing in you hostility. Besides, if he seldom pays you attention, it can be the cause of nursing on it a small grievance and to cease to consider in revenge the ideal.
5. Bring children. Perhaps, there came salutary time for a new stage in your life when it is possible to pay attention to education of new generation. As a rule, the maternal instinct very strong also distracts the woman from other duties. As a result, education of children will help you to get rid of importunate desire of proximity.
6. If you lack proximity with the husband, it is possible to find also other ways to give itself physical pleasure, for example, to be engaged in masturbation. Some women find to themselves a consolation that spend more time and communicate with the girlfriends more often, share with them the problems and together look for their decisions. Also quite effective way to forget about the desires is shopping: the joy of possession of a brand new thing is quite capable to overshadow all other experiences of the woman.