Choosing the companion of life, it is important to be guided not only by sympathy, but also presence of similar vital values. East wise men called this condition "ability to look in one party". More pragmatic western psychologists adhere to a formulation "the similar relation to moral and material".
It is required to you
- - dating service;
- - photos;
- - computer;
- - phone.
Instruction
1. If you do not have enough time for placement of announcements in newspapers of the corresponding subject or filling of questionnaires on the websites, address to dating service. Choosing the agency, be guided not by beautiful promises, but responses of real clients. Unfortunately, among firms of this sort there are a lot of charlatans who, except the presentation of own services, are not able to be engaged in anything.
2. Fill out the questionnaire, take several pictures. If dating service works professionally, to you will suggest to pass test. Do not refuse, in it there is nothing bad. To pick up the potential companion of life, it is necessary to know your psychological portrait.
3. Meet those pretenders with whom there was a mutual understanding during correspondence or phone conversation. How were the girl is lovely if you experienced difficulties at so early stage, it is better not to spend time further. It makes sense to hold meetings in the neutral territory. Do not invite the lady to the first an appointment at cinema. Visit better an opening day that it was possible to discuss what was seen and to share impressions during viewing pictures. As option, just sit in cafe.
4. Listen to the companion, encouraging on more detailed stories about the life. The you learn more, rather will understand whether yours is a person. You should not set any loaded questions, the conversation can flow on absolutely free course. For the first appointment the main thing that you wanted to meet once again. If it occurred, so consciously or subconsciously the girl interested you.
5. Ask more specific questions during the second and third meetings. You do not hurry to intimate relations even if you very much want it. Choosing the companion of life, it is important that at first you made friends. It is kind of banal sounded, but the period when you feel to each other strong sexual attraction, but you do not sleep together yet – the most romantic and memorable.