To everyone at least once in life broke heart. It is terrible to present what sufferings soul can experience. You were tormented by insomnia, you could not eat, the infinite rivers of tears flowed from your eyes. But time heals. And on your way the wonderful person appeared. In this situation you are concerned by only one question: "How to construct the new relations?"
Instruction
1. To the new relations it is necessary to be ready. Release the evil past and forget offenses. If your soul is not cleaned, you will project unconsciously offenses of the past at the new relations. Some time is better to be alone, to deal with the emotions and to learn useful lessons from the bitter experience. Of course, to step through a lie and treachery and to start over again trusting people very not simply, but to try nevertheless costs. Kind of loss pain, infinite loneliness, undoubtedly was not severe, will cause you incomparably severe pain.
2. If on a question: "What did I make not so?" you find answers, try to avoid similar mistakes in the new relations. You remember, both are always guilty of a gap. Find out what caused a gap of you. Perhaps, it was excessive care, jealousy or infinite reproaches. If it is difficult to you to deal with this situation independently, it is possible to address the psychologist.
3. The love consists of trifles. Care for the beloved: prepare for him a coffee cup that it was not late for work, put couple of sandwiches in its backpack if you know that he does not manage to have dinner. Men very much do not love when they are tried to be changed, but how to be if some trifle in his behavior does not suit you? Use the natural cunning. Gradually try to influence the partner, eliminating his addiction so that he thought that this his decision. By and large, all men for creation of ideal need only three things: sex, fidelity and support. Use this formula, please it, surprise, and it will not leave for anything you.
4. It is important to understand that the love not always brings happiness. The love is a heavy work, it is fight for happiness. And tears and quarrels are present in every respect, but pass only those couples which really fight for the relations through all these barriers. Therefore if it is really expensive to you, stock up with patience and go forward.