Entering the relations with the man, the woman fixedly monitors the behavior, however it is possible to avoid some widespread mistakes at the same time not always. These mistakes also separately represent not palatable phenomena – and in total they will absolutely frighten off even the most firm man.
First of all the working woman should not concentrate only on the career – it will lead development of the relations in that simple reason into a blind alley over time that it just will have no time for them. The same can be told and about egoism – the serious relations between the man and the woman are possible only in case a fine half of couple not only takes to the maximum, but also gives too enough.
Also total and ruthless control is capable to destroy the relations with the man. Constant calls during the day, infinite inquiries, offensive suspiciousness and many other things are faithful assistants on the way to parting. Especially men do not love attempts to manipulate them – and if manipulations also are dull, then affairs are absolutely bad. The same concerns pretense and insincerity: men are quite capable to empathy, and the lack of reaction to hypocrisy often is no more than sign of good patience.
Very widespread female mistake is also desire to change the man under itself. As a result the hurt male pride quite often states to the woman everything that it would like to remake in her and shuts the door with a bang. Despite the popular theory that men adore bitches they stand hysterical women with the increased conflictness exactly until when the level of testosterone and endorphins in blood begins to decrease. Also the relations with the man have to mean ability not only to be an interesting interlocutor, but also to listen.
To stir 24х7 about the things historically uninteresting to severe men, this the best that can be made for cooling of passion. One more right way to break in relations – comparison of the man with the previous or surrounding men. A similar talk will not be sustained sooner or later even by the most inveterate henpecked.
The woman should not be dissolved in the relations without the rest at all. The man is more self-sufficient, the less he wants to see near himself the woman who forgot about own pride and running around it with the wagging tail. Well and at last – spiteful or envious character. In the man's relations first of all look for harmony and a positive, and existence near by of eternally dissatisfied kritikansha does not give to the world of the bright paints inherent in the love period at all.