There is a lot of reasons for which wives leave husbands. It can be cooling of feelings, treason of the husband, new hobby of the woman, unseemly behavior from the spouse, etc. And if it was not succeeded to return darling, heavy parting should be worried.
Instruction
1. Release the wife. Do not dream of the joint future – it will not be any more. You should not be angry and say goodbye to it, leaving only bad memoirs in the soul. But, on the other hand, it is not necessary and to idealize the spouse. People after parting often can look at the past through pink glasses as they begin to appreciate something only after it is lost. Not to suffer because of parting with the ideal woman, try to remember also that bad that between you was.
2. Begin to build the future anew. While you with the wife were together, you for certain had a set of various plans, but now an image of the future which you drew in the imagination, it is necessary to destroy. If you cannot live, without knowing that you will do tomorrow or in a month, make to yourself the small plan. You have to understand what to you still is where to aspire, and life did not lose the meaning with leaving of the wife.
3. Try to realize what was inaccessible to you earlier. For example, if the wife did not allow you to jump with a parachute, make it now. If earlier too much money had to be spent for family, then now you can podkopit and go a little to a travel or buy of what you dreamed long ago. So you will be able to distract from gloomy thoughts and to begin to live life, not connected with last and even in many respects different from it.
4. If parting for you is too painful, try not only to minimize communication with the wife, but also to avoid any reminders on it. Otherwise you will deepen the wound, and it will be possible to forget about heavy parting still at a distant day. Erase number of darling from phone, remove all her contacts, photos, etc., try to communicate with her as seldom as possible. It is heavy to make it, especially if you have many mutual friends, but it is worth making efforts nevertheless.