There are situations when the girl begins to regret that left the guy, and for various reasons wants to return him. But there passed already a lot of time, feelings to it grew cold. If you consider that it is really important for you, it is possible to try to fall in love with former again.
Instruction
1. Remember all good points which were in your life while you met this young man. Try to recollect day of your first meeting, its first gift, your first kiss and romantic night together. All this will help to distract from events which happen to you at present, and again to feel near once beloved.
2. Think why you fell in love with this guy earlier. Remember his positive traits of character as he looked after you. It is possible to compare him to other men with whom you communicate at present. Most likely, you will find out that in your eyes he looks much better.
3. Try to forgive all offenses which were caused to you by the former young man. All this remained in the past and if you want to begin with it new life, it is necessary to think only of the present and the future. Besides, most likely, the guy also already realized the mistakes and now became absolutely other person.
4. Suggest the young man to meet. Hold an appointment in one of places where you liked to be earlier. Remember together what interesting and memorable happened to you. Ask the guy on his life, learn what at him now hobbies, plans, etc. If you think more often of him, to be interested in what occurs in his life gradually your feelings can return and even to become stronger, than earlier.
5. You do not hurry the relation and be not upset if, despite all attempts, you do not manage to fall in love with it again yet. It is difficult to cause love by artificial methods, sometimes it is necessary just to calm down and to wait a little. You spend more time together, communicate and help each other. If you do everything correctly, not to allow the conflicts and quarrels, once you will have that treasured feeling to your former.