The mother-in-law and the son-in-law – an eternal subject for discussions, painfully often happens war between these two people. In this "duel" they as if wild animals who everything cannot divide the victim in any way, that is the wife and the daughter in one person. For this reason there are many quarrels in young family. Therefore it is very important for the son-in-law to find "common ground" with the mother-in-law.
Instruction
1. Do not listen and do not reconcile on yourself all developed stereotypes concerning the relations of the son-in-law and mother-in-law. Consider that understanding between you is put at once, that is even at acquaintance. For this reason you have to treat initially the wife's mother with love, respect and understanding.
2. Do not represent at heart the mother-in-law quarrelsome, angry and artful. Look at her better on the other hand. Understand that she brought up your girlfriend that gave it life, so, gave you a gift which, perhaps, is for you the most expensive.
3. Understand that disagreements happen at all not because she hates you, just you have different views on life which were created owing to age, experience, judgments. Therefore you treat cavils calmly, you should not flash as if a bipod from a spark.
4. You treat the mother-in-law as the mother, that is with the same warmth and respect. And you will see how she will answer you same. And there and to the fine maternal relations nearby.
5. If so it turned out that on the mother-in-law you nursed a grievance and you cannot fall in love with it in any way, sort out yourself. Sit down and attentively think what induced you to feel hostility. Some psychologists advise to write on paper all that negative that you test to the wife's mother. After that cross out everything fat line and break off a leaf on small pieces, at the same time "delete and you will throw out" from thoughts all bad.
6. Constantly you say that you love and respect the mother-in-law that she good and you have a full mutual understanding. Also do not criticize action of the mother-in-law at all, and especially do not do it at people around.
7. Some people say that the is more rare the mother-in-law see, the more you love her. So can you should not come to visit her every day? It is better to gather during holidays at an amicable big round table.