Common interests help to make the relations in family warmer, and sometimes - to resolve conflict situations and to make life more various. How to find the general hobbies without personal violence?
1. Let's assume, the husband prefers to spend free time, repairing the car. It is fine if you show interest in cars and if is not present? It is not obligatory to penetrate into a hobby subject thoroughly. It is enough to show only some attention. Over time you will be able to become interested more deeply.
2. Do not despair if due to various reasons you cannot watch with great feeling football fights or discuss foreign policy of the USA whereas the spouse is capable to argue for hours on these subjects with friends. Do not show irritation, listen what they speak about.
3. Remember what once brought together you. Perhaps, you went together to a skating rink or were alloyed by the company on kayaks. Get a family album, remember old happy days. Nothing prevents to reject cargo of the collected problems and to return to old hobbies which forgot, having plunged into family life.
4. Try to carry away the husband the interests. It is not obligatory for it to sign up for courses of housekeeping or to cross stitch. Think what it is more useful to join? Try "to place" him on a healthy lifestyle. Unless he does not want to dump couple of kilograms and to build muscles? In that case the company for morning jogs is provided to you. And there and to joint visits of fitness club nearby, your blessed will not lift a bar at home.
5. If common interests with the husband were not, do not lose courage. Find the general hobby, try something unexpected. Hobbies will rally you and will make family of stronger. In any case, the boredom definitely does not threaten.