Many girls dream to find the man of the dream. It is not so difficult. It is enough to execute four simple steps.
Before moving off in searches of the man of a dream, it is worth understanding one fact. Let's call it the principle of reality. It sounds so: ideal men are not. If you want the real alpha male, then have to understand that hardly he will be gentle and tender. Tame alpha males are not. As there are no rich businessmen who scribble every minute esemek to the girlfriend and are ready to carry out with her every minute. Is not present, choose, either successful business, or the whole days of joint pastime.
So, when we acquired this difficult truth, it is a high time to pass to steps.
The first step. We define qualities of the man of a dream
You speak "The man of a dream". And what you mean by it? Write out at least ten qualities which you go to see in the half. It can be kindness, intellectuality, generosity, sense of humour, enthusiasm … The main thing, do not forget about the principle of reality!
Here it is possible to enter values which the man of a dream has to possess. For example, family, development, financial stability, care of health.
It is also important to write those qualities which you never, will tolerate by no means. For example, arrogance, greed, aggression, disrespectful relation.
After you made it, it is possible to pass to the following step.
The second step. We define habitats of the man of a dream
You already imagined the man of the dream. Now it is necessary to understand where you can be crossed with him. If in necessary qualities at you "Care of health", perhaps appears, you will meet the man of the dream in the fitness hall or in the park on jog. Keen it is possible to meet by self-development on various trainings. And if you approximately decided on a circle of professions of the man of the dream, then can look for him and on the Internet at specialized forums.
Minuses of this step: you should get out of a zone of comfort and to visit those places in which you are not. Pluses: your life will become much more interesting. And, perhaps, you will get acquainted with the man of a dream!
The third step. We meet the man of a dream
The most difficult step – acquaintance! How do you think in order that men met you, it is necessary to have unearthly beauty? Not at all. The main thing – goodwill and a smile. Many men are afraid to approach girls. If you are benevolent and open to communication, you will have more chances of acquaintances. And, please, forget about inaccessibility, it most often frightens off. The few men like to take unapproachable fortresses.
So, the man started talking to you. We include on full goodwill and originality. You remember, it is difficult to many men to begin a talk therefore they should be supported. Smile or original answers. Life hack: if to finish the answer with a question, awkward pauses can be avoided.
Do not forget that you also can initiate acquaintance. One of the best ways – to ask the help. Or to find common interests: perhaps, on his t-shirt – a print with your favorite band. It is excellent opportunity to strike up a conversation!
The fourth step. We test the man of the dream
Did you get acquainted with the man, and communication goes there is no place better? Great. But you remember, the first days (and even weeks) after acquaintance is a test drive of the man. Listen to yourself: as to you with it. Comfortably? May youMay youMay you be near it yourself? Whether you feel after communication with it filled or, on the contrary, devastated? This step is very important. If you notice that with the man to you it is most often bad, or it is not pleasant to you how he eats, or, maybe, he ignores your desires, putting in a priority only the - remember, it can be the first calls of the fact that at all not the man of your dream got to you.
Well and finally one more council: do not rush to the relations as the sea – from running start, plunging into them. You enter them carefully, come nearer to each other slowly. Stay at first friends, then lovers, live together several quarrels. Let your relations will reveal as a flower. Then you will have more chances to understand whether it is valid before you the man of your dream, and to see in the partner of the real person with his many-sided character. And it is pledge of the happy relations.