Creation of family assumes the general accommodation, the general children, common problems and the general purse. Unfortunately, men often forget about the last and give money to the soulmate only if the woman asks.
It is required to you
- - list of expenses and their planning;
- - idea of the general purchase of some expensive thing.
Instruction
1. To accustom the husband to give the salary or at least its part it is better at once while he did not get used yet and did not take the separate budget for granted. The man has to understand that creation of family imposes certain obligations on it, including financial. Do not delay business in a long box, being afraid to wound gentle soul of darling the mercantile interests. Then to impart to it understanding that money needs to be given to the wife, much more difficultly. Really, why to hand to the spouse terribly earned if earlier we perfectly did without these victims, he will logically solve.
2. Having got married or having begun to live together, at once lift a delicate problem on whose means you, as a matter of fact, are going to live? If you the fan of equal relations, discuss who and how many will bring money in the general copper. Your husband is not eager to give you all the salary, agree to pay operating costs (utility payments, food, household appliances) by sharing the cost, in proportion to the income of each of you.
3. By the way, these operating costs can be increased, having said that that sum which is given by your promised, is not enough for their covering. Is necessary more. In case the husband begins to jib and doubt truthfulness of your words, ask it to descend on the market and to buy everything. Men, as a rule, are not able to choose goods and to bargain, and wanderings on the trading floor in search of what is cheaper irritates them and casts grief (whether because of awareness of own insolvency, whether from features of male temperament). Or make an experiment: collect all checks and show how much you spend for products. Always it is possible to find more expensive product, than you usually buy.
4. Still very good option is to agree about the general purchase for which, of course, it will be necessary to save up money. You can offer the car. At most of men it is a favourite toy, and, most likely, they will easily come across such trick. You need only to allocate the place where you will put the general money. Over time the husband will get used to such state of affairs, and you should not beg it for the next handout.