Men are visual. And it means that first of all they are attracted by beautiful women. They admire and admire lovely seductresses. But sometimes the young man hesitates to approach and start talking to the beauty. He feels diffidence and fear of the unknown: the girl will want to communicate or not.
The first step to the purpose is to overcome the indecision and to approach the desired girl. For a start it is possible to be trained to start conversations with other women. Set for yourself the task for day – to get acquainted with 10 girls. Go to the crowded place: cafe, library, supermarket. You start a conversation with the first young lady who will meet. Behave easy.
How to overcome itself
It is good to arrange similarity of a competition to the friend: who in a definite time will get acquainted with a large number of girls. The loser treats with beer. What to do if were refused? Know that the comprehended failures not a reason for disappointment. It is a step to self-improvement. Analyze the reason and next time behave differently. It is noticed that frank boors most often are refused. Girls are more favorable to the others if, of course, the guy is sober and tidy.
Having gained enough experience in acquaintance methods, you pass to object of desire. The expected meeting can take place in any place. Irrespective of it, it is necessary to feel it is weakened and easy. Girls in this case seldom leave from a conversation. You breathe slowly and deeply, get rid of "bad" thoughts. It is not necessary to be obsessed with expectation of bad. And here if you are nervous and twitch very few people will want to remain even just nearby.
Acquaintance to the beauty
Before approaching the girl, observe her at first from outside. It is very important to understand her mood. Chagrin or rage not the best satellite for acquaintance. Also it is not desirable to approach if it in an environment of friends. At convenient combination of circumstances try to attract attention, to catch the beauty's eye. Already on one its reaction it is possible to judge interest it in you. If she smiled and looked away, and then tried to look once again secretly, it is possible to pass to the subsequent actions. If writhed a grimace and turned away, it is better to leave it alone. Perhaps will carry next time or with other beauty. Girls like to talk, especially when listen carefully to them. Show that you are other than the others. Try to learn her opinion on some question. It can be a gossip about the famous person, the blockbuster which came out or opening of a new institution. Reveal interest. And further already act on circumstances. Understand that some guys, without having overcome itself, do not approach beauties. Because of it girls think that there is with them something not so, and have complex. Therefore more courageous and persistent guys get them. Think whom you want to be: pathetic loser or winner?