You get close people such what are also you are reconciled with their shortcomings and habits. Both parents, and children are taken for granted. Only choosing the partner in life, people begin to expose requirements and to adjust darlings to certain criteria. However, it is necessary to be able to accept the partner as well as other people dear to you.
Instruction
1. Do not try to change the husband. At the beginning of the relations you accepted everything, time you reached such serious decision as a marriage. But the habit and life made your feelings ordinarier and you in search of new emotions begin to look for shortcomings of the loved one. Think if your husband changes, unless he will be that with whom you so strongly fell in love? If the situation in family becomes absolutely intolerable, then define for yourself the most important rules of conduct to which your spouse has to adhere. But state the requests softly in straight talk that the man could share the wishes too. Here you will see, to it also is what to tell.
2. Build your joint life on trust. It is not necessary to check phone and e-mail of the husband constantly. Such espionage will force your man to hide more carefully those aspects of the life which do not concern you. Understand that to the person it is necessary, let and conditional, but freedom. Allow it to go to soccer with friends or to fishing. It is not necessary to think that it immediately to go to other women. Believe, men are interested in a lot of things, except an opposite sex.
3. Try to find common interests. No love will save the relation if people have nothing to discuss. It has to be interesting to the man with you. You have to attract him not only as the beautiful and sexy woman, but also as the interlocutor. If you do not want that he spent too much time with friends, then it is necessary to become a worthy alternative to them. Pay attention to what is pleasant to your husband. And if you do not want to go to the gym together with it then ask as there took place the training. To the man it is important that near him there was a person with whom it is possible to discuss all most important.
4. Try to struggle with monotony in your life. Change and change the life. Let the man when comes from work, do not know that he waits for him for dinner. Surprise with the behavior, novelty in sex and own appearance. All this will help to keep love as long as possible. The constant sharpness of feelings will make you happy, and marriage strong.