Not always hopes for the long-term relations are for the rest of life equaled – happens to a thicket so that people leave, and parting brings them a lot of stress and frustration. Nevertheless, if you suddenly realized that to the relations the end came, and better for all will be them to stop, it is necessary to learn to leave correctly – so that the girl had only positive memories of your relations and of you.
Instruction
1. If you actually understood that not to return the relation – do not cling to the left love, realize that it is necessary to live further and to build the relations with someone another.
2. Perceive parting not as the tragedy and as the new beginning – it will help to transfer easier it.
3. Do not repeat an error of most of people – your parting should not become the event full of a negative.
4. You leave the girl so that she remembered you with love and warmth subsequently – it is more worthy and more pleasant, than to make scandal on the eve of parting.
5. Keep the valid and respectful attitude towards the girl despite everything – she will be grateful to you and will keep about you the best memoirs.
6. If your relations are on the verge for a long time, and rather little push that they came to the end – think whether it is possible to turn them into friendship, having finished non-conflicting and softly.
7. The main thing that you need to understand – do not try to hide from the girl that feelings began to die away. The best way to let it know it – quietly and honestly to talk to it, without mutual claims and reproaches.
8. Let it know that in spite of the fact that the love passed, you respect her as interesting person, and are ready to continue companionship further.
9. Surely thank the girl in a decisive conversation before parting. Let her know that you are grateful to it for what it gave you – and the girl, in turn, too will be grateful to you for your love.