The bothered, become obsolete relations – a heavy burden which demands many vital forces and emotions. To put the end to the unfortunate novel it is difficult, especially, if one of partners does not want to say goodbye. But nevertheless it is necessary to leave the guy if you have to him no feelings and you do not see the joint future.
It is required to you
- - new hobby.
Instruction
1. Begin to limit contacts with the guy gradually. Find more time for work or study, referring to constant employment. Emphasize that in the evening you would like to have a rest and a bit earlier to go to bed. This way, perhaps, will let the young man know that your career is more important for you. If you have a lot of free time, and you cannot create "visibility" of employment, begin to visit friends, parents, to communicate in other company without your guy.
2. Try to adjust gradually private life of your young man if you feel that he is not in love with you. For example, acquaint him with the nice friend and provoke their frequent communication. Encourage its contacts with friends, their joint visits of night clubs, country trips. So he will be able to get acquainted with other girl, and your parting will be painless.
3. Organize a serious conversation with your young man. However you should not begin it without preliminary preparation. Pick up the necessary phrases, find arguments in favor of your parting. You can even outline the draft copy of your conversation and try to say it. Think over potential answers to the guy's questions. Do not begin a conversation if you feel that at present your young man is not capable to a constructive conversation.
4. Think over, than you fill your life after parting. Irrespective of the nature of your relations, after a gap you can feel emptiness and loneliness. In advance plan the list of important issues, interesting trips, find new hobbies.