As barriers on the way of family life meet much. One of the most difficult stages of family is the first year of joint matrimonial life. Unfortunately, not many couples reach the first – print anniversary.
Respect and listen to opinion of the half, try to make decisions, significant for you, in common.
For many young families - the first year of joint family life is very difficult. Most of them, without having crossed a year threshold break up. The reasons for disintegration of young families there can be a set. Gradually to replace romanticism their family life more and more surely includes gray everyday life, with a heap of household problems. To my regret, I know a set of sad examples of disintegration of married couples on the rise of their joint life. These are examples from life of my friends, schoolmates. In the first months of family life, time of discovery of new, and at times and unexpected traits of character and qualities of the partner follows.
Very often, young people try to construct the family by an example and similarity of the parents, adopt so to speak parental "model" of family. Often the young wife compares the husband to the father, and the husband compares behavior of the wife to the mother. I faced an example when spouses found out who in their family main, at the same time the model of family of their parents was also used. At the same time at someone one of parents dominated more over another. Children try to construct the family by an example of the parents, relying on their experience and good memories, not paying what attention to the mistakes made by parents. Also, one of young spouses does not even think and whether this behavior model will be acceptable for his half?
Plan the family budget.
Today not so there are a lot of wealthy families as can seem at first sight. After the wedding, newlyweds with ease leave large sums of money. Easily and without thinking, spend money for expensive, sometimes unnecessary things. Newlyweds continue to live by inertia, without planning the family budget owing to what there are financial straits, and search guilty of waste of savings begins.
Do not try to change each other.
The attempt to change each other usually does not lead to anything good. Before you decided to live with the person constantly, everything in him suited you? So why to change your darling after the wedding? First, the person cannot be changed. And secondly it can do will negatively affect your marriage in general.
Dear newlyweds! You should not forget that the family is certain obligations. A secret of long family life at each family the. Under a basis of strong and happy marriage daily compromise between spouses is reached. Renouncing own I, partners adapt to each other throughout all matrimonial life.