Mother - the native person. But not always even the closest relatives become friends. Happens so that between children and parents there are irreconcilable disagreements because of opposite views on the world.
Instruction
1. What to do if it is difficult to communicate with mother? Think when there was a cooling of the relations that promoted it. Perhaps, everything goes from the childhood. Some parents owing to the temperament and character are too cold with children, are more busy with the problems. Kids in family are perceived as a dokuk, mothers want to grow up quicker them and to get rid of duties unnecessary them. In such families you should not wait for heat from parents and at mature age. Mothers understand that they made a mistake, having only become old and weak. They need support and begin to try to return love of children. If it is your situation, know, you have a right to refuse to mother as it was made once by her. But whether you need it? Perhaps, mother realized the mistakes, regretted and now very much needs you. Talk to her frankly. Only the confidential conversation will place all points in the relations.
2. There are also opposite situations. It is difficult to communicate with mothers because of their love of children which is sweeping away everything on the way. Such parents get the adored child hyper guardianship, try to control each step even at mature age, get into the family relations of adult children, etc. To reconcile to such behavior of mother very difficult and it is not necessary. For a start explain to her that you are an independent adult, give examples of how you are respected at work as appreciate in family. For mothers inclined to hyper guardianship, it is very important that people around think of her "kid". Therefore, referring to the senior companions and heads, prove to it that you can be trusted, and you are already capable to be responsible for the acts. If the conversation did not help - limit communication with mother. Ask it to write SMS, but not to call when she wants to tell something. If did not help - do not answer calls, only messages. Over time mother will understand that you are quite capable to do without her, and will find to herself a new hobby. But at the same time do not forget mother absolutely. Surely be interested in its affairs and health. Only do it in off-duty time and when there is a mood to communicate with relatives. Then in the relations with parents to come the world and rest.
3. Try not to clash with mother, it is kind of difficult was. Do not make scandals, solve everything by negotiations. Behave as the adult. Then parents will become is respectful to you, will trust and consult on you.