Mother's darling is a terrible sentence. It, this infantile man who always and in everything obeys mother women are afraid how fire. But mother's darlings do not carry signs of differences so in certain cases the woman learns about unpleasant features of character of the partner only after the wedding. You should not dismiss also the fact that the love is evil, and women are naive.
1. Be ready that the mother-in-law will try to destroy your life. You should not underestimate its force: a huge number of marriages breaks up because of intervention of parents. The most terrible mistake which you can make is to agree to live together with the mother-in-law. Be firm and persistent, convince your husband to move. Even if you should rent apartment and the payment for rent will force you to tighten a belt more tightly, decide all the same. Choose: either expenditure of nerves, or expenditure of money.
2. Change orders in family. Mother's darlings often become attached to family traditions. They think that, for example, to bake pies on Sundays, to go to a zoo on the first Saturday of July and to celebrate New year of the house and only at home is a norm. Start own family traditions which will be connected already with you, but not with your mother-in-law.
3. Kind of you became angry about the mother-in-law, treat her with due respect. Do not forget only that you can demand the same relation also to yourself. The husband has to know that you respect his mother, but no more than that. Do not dare to criticize and the more so to offend the mother-in-law – to these you will only push away the husband. Tell girlfriends behind a coffee cup better everything that you think of this woman. Exhaust in the women's company: it is optional to husband to know about your attitude towards his mother.
4. Do not try to re-educate the husband – you it is all the same will not manage. Reconcile to its character better and accept it it what it is actually. Try to become for it the loved one, get the general secrets which his mother should not know. Help it with everything, encourage its progress, emphasize its positive lines. It will even stronger attach the man to you.
5. If you understand that to live with mother's darling became absolutely intolerable – file for a divorce. To fight for the love – it, of course, is remarkable, but is not always worth it. The husband and his mother are capable to deform your life and to hurt you so much that heart will bleed for years. If you understand that to you not to win – give up.