After the endured warm experiences there comes the moment when it seems that no love exists. There is a wish to be closed and not to start up this feeling in itself not to burn once again. But sometimes it is just necessary to open heart for love, without it it is simply impossible to live.
It is required to you
- - computer with Internet connection;
- - books and movies about love.
Instruction
1. If it seems to you that the love is not necessary to you at all, try to analyze these thoughts and feelings. What pushed you on them? Perhaps, it was the offense caused by other person or fear of the fact that you will become dependent on this feeling and will lose yourself. Whatever was the reason, you need to define it and to think, whether so it powerful never to open the heart for the best feeling which it can feel.
2. Formulate the thoughts in writing. Divide a leaf into two parts, on one half write all minuses of love, on another – pluses. In a column for minuses describe all the fears and mistrust to this feeling. Include all good points which the love gives in pluses: support and a support of the half, understanding of that you not some in this world, happiness from happy time of love, tenderness and caress.
3. When you decide to open heart for love, help yourself. There will be not enough one mental decision, it is necessary to adjust itself on the necessary harmony. Add romantic mood to the life even if so far you did not meet the half or the one who was would like to be seen with themselves nearby. Read books about love, you watch romantic movies, listen to lyrical music.
4. Completely to open love, the person who will help you to trust in this feeling is simply necessary for you. If in your environment there is no that person who could become your half, do not despair – look for it. It does not mean that you have to go on the city and try to fall in love with each passer. Will enough not push away those who sincerely want to get acquainted with you.
5. Try and to tie independently new acquaintances, it is unknown, where exactly you will meet the love. More often you leave the house, visit theaters, exhibitions or just cafe and night clubs. Try to get acquainted on the Internet, quite often such acquaintances develop into the real relations. The main thing if you decided to open heart for love, help it. Do not refuse the decision even if any acquaintance will be unsuccessful. Do not come back to the past, look for the future and then you will understand that you in vain so long hid from love.