Women by the nature thin and sincere natures, especially at young age. Guys can use kindness of the girl. However there are ways to punish the person who caused you mental anguish.
How to punish the guy who uses kindness of the girl
That begin to use kindness of the girl she understands not at once. The first ardent hobby or strong youthful love are capable to dement inexperienced mind of the girl. Gradually understanding that the guy exploits you comes. Such behavior is followed by identical signs.
Signs of behavior of the guy to which it is worth paying attention
One of the most strong indications the absence to you sincere interest is considered. The guy is interested only his affairs and problems and he speaks about it constantly. If your young man ceased to ask how are you, then it is bad sign. He got used that you always are near and can satisfy any its request in spite of the fact that you can have affairs. If you refuse, then the behavior of the guy can sharply change on irritable and aggressive. Calls at any time with requirements to satisfy its request is already sign of disrespect for you. When you solve the problems independently, and the young man does not participate in this process, you to it are indifferent and there are no deep feelings. The loving person will always help the soulmate. The person who uses kindness of the girl will lose to it interest right after receives result. Will appear on the horizon if again something is required. So you understood that the guy uses your kindness. Try to punish him.
Behavior tactics
There is a traditional way which always works in behavior with men of any age. Just it is necessary to disappear from his life sharply and unexpectedly. To ideally replace number or to close access to the page on social networks. Such behavior will surprise your guy. There will also be a check of feelings which he has to you. If the man loves, then he will find any way to contact you. It is the first stage which sorts things out. Further it is necessary to work on a situation. Check reaction of your guy to any your action. It will help to build the plan of cold revenge to the offender. The best way is to arrive with it in this way. When there is the next call with a request, it is better to refuse a sharp form, but without offending at the same time. So it is necessary to make several times that your guy understood with whom deals and you will not allow to use yourself. It is possible to ask him to satisfy your request, but then to dishonor before friends or in the big company. It is rather rigid way, but effective. The most important is not to give itself in offense. If already met the person who uses your kindness, then it is better to delete him from the life. In the future you are expected by a lot more interesting meetings with worthy men.