The proposal not delights each woman. And not always everyone knows that it is possible to respond to similar manifestation of feelings. Psychologists, in turn, developed a number of hints which will help to give the correct answer and not to offend the man.
Instruction
1. Of course, the easiest way to respond to proposal - standard "yes" or "no". However in the first case it will be rather trivial, and in the second is offensive. But if you want to avoid long explanations and justifications, then it is your option.
2. If the gentleman is not pleasant to you, and together with him you do not accept also the relations, then in formulations it is possible not to hesitate. Everything depends on degree of your good breeding. But before you decide to leave in this way this man, once again think. After that you will hardly meet him still and to communicate normally.
3. If you are indifferent to the young man, but want to keep with him the friendly relations, it is necessary to answer very deliberately. One of options - to translate the sentence for fun. But it is not necessary to deride the man at all. Just connect the sense of humour. For example, answer it that you did not receive more gallant offer therefore you need to consider as gallantly to answer it. So you and time will win to think up the worthy answer, and will not offend the gentleman.
4. Try to refer to external circumstances. Tell that now are not ready yet, you have a study, work, a holiday only in a year (necessary to emphasize). It will help you to postpone return to this question to rather long period.
5. If you after all want to respond to the offer to get married treasured consent, then all the same you should not hurry. Tell that you need to think - it will stir interest of the man in you only once again. Time you do not answer at once, so are not up to the end sure of the feelings. And it is a new occasion to win you finally. Wait day - another, and later answer the in the affirmative.
6. It is possible to respond to the offer to marry rather in a flowery style. However, it is so possible to do, only if you are sure that your elect will estimate similar experiments. For example, you can buy a puzzle and answer the man by means of a peculiar allegory. It can sound approximately so: "Darling, I hope that in our family life will be as much happy days, how many pieces in this puzzle".