Rhythms of modern life do not promote the passionate love relations. When two see each other by fits in circulation of life, to them happens once to pay each other attention. And over time they lose touch, live as neighbors, on a habit. Such situation - wrong, unhealthy and dangerous. If you do not want to face treason or a divorce, it is necessary, without wasting time, to begin work on renewal of relations.
Instruction
1. Look for healthy balance between private life, care of children and relatives, work. Define at what moments you will be able to stay alone with the spouse in the quiet and weakened situation. If sex left your life almost at all, first it can be appointments without intim. You speak, communicate, interested in affairs of the partner, look for a new common ground with him if old are lost. Generally, begin the novel with the beginning. In process of restoration of emotional warmth the passion will return to your relations.
2. Be engaged in appearance. Quite often spouses or old partners relax in the presence of each other and begin to look not in the best way. It is difficult to feel passion for the sloven. Especially to men. So both have to make toilet – to be tonsured, shave, washed, to update clothes, to buy new aroma, etc.
3. Get rid of faultfinding and excessive fault-finding. Sexologists know that men are afraid to approach quarrelsome women with offers of sex. If the wife "saws" them day by day, they begin to avoid intim. Or that it is even worse, accept a pile for bravery that can pass over time into a habit or even alcoholism. The same concerns also women – to them hard happens to all passion to plunge into sexual games if the partner is ready too crucially.
4. Create the suitable atmosphere. Many spouses who forgot about sex quite often have all conditions to be engaged. Both time, and attractiveness, and goodwill to each other. There is no one only – a suitable spirit. It is simple to create it: reproduce the most sweet moments of your former passion. They will awaken warm memoirs and feelings will gush with a new force!