A little little flirtation and he hints it at further development of your relations. However, you is married and you do not plan to leave the spouse for the sake of the new elect. It is necessary to place all points over "i" - to tell it that you is married.
Instruction
1. Pave the way for explanation of a situation – suggest it to talk about your relationship seriously. Only you do not joke and you speak with it the apologizing tone, the slightest hint on the benevolent relation will instill in it confidence in fidelity of its intentions in relation to you. Choose the place and time for a conversation neutral – any cozy small restaurants and moonlight walks, they adjust only on a romantic harmony. Ideal option – a lunch break or the beginning of the working day, the meeting place – small cafe or the city park.
2. Try to choose neutral clothes and make a soft make-up. You should not be painted provocatively and to put on sexually for a decisive conversation with the man to which you plan to tell about the successful marriage. Place emphasis on own words, but not on a deep decollete and a short skirt. Effective emergence will only cause a storm of emotions in the persistent admirer.
3. Prepare the explanatory speech in advance. You do not say to him at all that it to you is nice, it is interesting to communicate with it and he is a good person, but your heart is not free now. You can apprehend as the management to active action – then already you will definitely not get off because he will decide that you, in principle, not against the new relations. Most optimum to say that you are happy in marriage and you are not going to change anything in the life that you made the choice and near you the best man in the world. It will wound vanity and will not give to the admirer of excess hopes for your gain.
4. Do not give in on arrangements and provocations. The man enraged by refusal is capable of a lot of things. It is difficult to predict his behavior. It is good if it understands your position. But it can begin to cry, kneel or begin to threaten with punishment to you or your husband. You should not react to similar statements. Most likely, it is just minute weakness of the offended person. Having answered him with the same, you will show the vulnerability.