Often happens that people postpone a serious talk, waiting for a suitable situation, appropriate time, the having situation. At the same time the subject for a conversation not necessarily has negative character, just it means change of the course of habitual things. And it is valid how to tell the guy about something important, about what, perhaps, will change all your life, whether it be moving to other city, an unexpected prize in a lottery of the large sum of money or pregnancy?
Instruction
1. To each person the individual approach is necessary. In most cases you can foresee reaction of the partner in advance, who as not you knows your beloved so well? Who can predict his behavior and mood after obtaining important information it is better than you? And time so, you have an opportunity to be prepared for a conversation.
2. Regardless of what you are going to report to him about, mentally try to reproduce possible options of dialogues. In advance prepare the argument (if you are going to convince the man) or those words which will help him easier and more quietly to apprehend news (if your message not from pleasant). In this case its response will not take you unawares.
3. Do not wait too long – the case suitable in your opinion can so never and not turn up, and your partner will hardly be grateful to you for "outdated" news, especially if learns them from someone another, but not from you. Understand that the fear of the unknown forces to hesitate you: and how it will be then? But it is impossible to learn about it if just to sit and guess.
4. Report news with the look corresponding to a situation consider at the same time the attitude of your man towards what you want to tell about. If at it stole the car which you hated all heart, hide the joy and triumph better. Show understanding to feelings of the partner, he will really worry.
5. Do not begin a conversation according to "we should talk", "it is necessary to talk seriously". This phrase frightens many men or causes irritation. If both of you do not hurry anywhere and quietly talk, prefaces are not necessary any more. Stating information, designate the main idea if it is required, express the opinion.
6. Convey information accurately and clearly, and then ask opinion of the man on heard. It is simple to present the person with a fait accompli, of course, it is possible, but it is not always ethic. And the last: trust the man. What is important for you will be important and for him if he appreciates and loves you.