What is love? It is, perhaps, one of the heaviest terms. First of all, this feeling of deep sympathy for other person.
This feeling is peculiar to each person. Sooner or later the individual, be he a man or the woman, falls in love. But it not the most important for creation of family. The love has to be mutual. So it mutual love? How to define this reciprocity? Very often the person hides the sympathy only because he is afraid of lack of reciprocity. It is very difficult process. Especially presently. The consumer relations often meet. In this case about any love and the speech cannot be. Respectively, the happy and strong family from this will not leave.There are several signs of mutual love:
- the aspiration to spend together more time;
- care and respect;
- the distance cannot hinder;
- support of each other in any situation.
These signs have to be enough to think of marriage. It is important not to mix love with a simple habit. In this case the habit is the simple need for the person. But requirement is not love at all. The love is deeper process. It is the highest point of the relations. In this case the family will be happy. There is a good proverb: ""To recognize the person, it is necessary to live with him"". Absolutely truly. It is important not to hurry to start a family. It is necessary to recognize the person at first completely. With him it is necessary to live for the rest of the life. Therefore it is important to live at first together. If life proceeds quietly and peaceful, and idyll reigns in the house, then even it does not mean that you are created for each other. Each person is individual. It is very difficult process. As say: "Love heavy piece"". It's true. If one couple can live all life in tranquility, then other couple can under such condition leave because the spark can be gone in the relations. For this reason it is important to experience any difficulties with darling at first. And not just to worry, and to experience them together. And even if the partner will not go to the critical moments then a choice is made correctly! This that person! Only it is not necessary to look for these critical moments. They will come sooner or later. And if do not come, then it is necessary to rejoice to it. There are no difficulties - there are no problems.
The love is the engine of happy family. On it all mechanism of the family relations is constructed. Only in happy families of the spouse really love each other. It, perhaps, most important!