Unfortunately, the age of the animals especially traditional for our latitudes of cats and dogs is much shorter than human – on average years 11-12. And then they die, leaving the owners of some. And, probably, the most difficult to worry the first few days after the death of the favourite.
Instruction
1. What to do when the dog, the loyal friend who loved the owner just like that dies? How to worry death of a dog, every time returning to the empty apartment and, understanding that on a ring of keys the modulating bark will not sound any more? How to explain to children that their dog any more will never lick their handles the big rough language? First, calm down, of course, it sounds mockery, but quite so it is possible to help itself and to the children to endure loss. Yes, it is deep and will forever leave the mark in soul, but, time – treats, and it is the truth.
2. Organize a worthy funeral of an animal. In the cities there are cemeteries for animals where it is possible to bury a body or the favourite's ashes (cremation is carried out by veterinary clinics).
3. If the animal died at home, take away children to neighbors, having allowed to say goodbye before it to a dog. You should not injure their mentality a type of a body, take children on a funeral better and tell that all die once.
4. Even in case there was an accident and children do not know that something happened to a dog – do not think out fairy tales, that Jack escaped – children will wait every second for it return, to be nervous and worry. Better let they will accept the death of a dog as the come true fact which cannot already be changed, than will cherish pipe dreams and hopes.
5. At once remove from a foreground all dog things – toys, a favourite ball, bowls for a forage and water, a laying. It is not a proverb – "from eyes down with", just how to experience the death of a dog if all of them time stand in sight and "to scratch" soul?
6. And one more – you do not bring to children instead of other puppy as many parents do, children will not understand this gesture even if it is made of the best motives. Could you take other animal now? So why you so superficially judge the children?
7. And, at last, this weekend go with children to an animal grave. Remember together ridiculous situations from life, cry … be not afraid of the emotions, having let out them outside, it will become much easier for you.