Flowers – one of the simplest ways to tell about the feelings, besides is a wonderful courtesy. But not all men for some reason love or find it necessary to give flowers.
Flowers - an unclear gift
Women very much appreciate the presented flowers, even the lonely scarlet rose will make the lady happy sometimes for very long time. However not all men understand female emotions. The fact is that to them the love for such strange gifts is unclear. Admiration of flowers which will die during couple of days, causes bewilderment in men. For this reason they give some more useful things which, alas, have no even remotely smack of romanticism. So usually the lack of flowers during courtings or even joint life says that the man just is a realist.
A great way to change this anti-romantic trend is to explain with simple and clear words why for you it is so important to receive flowers from it. Very well explanations work in the spirit of: "When I look at the flower presented by you, I think of how I love you". Logical men for whom it is very important to be present at the beloved's life accept and understand such argument. However it is very important not to press, not to complain and not to ache in the course of an explanation. In general any pressure upon the man that he began to give flowers and gifts, most often leads to scandals and quarrels.
Do not reproach the man at all. If you so want that in the house there were flowers, try to buy them independently. Over time your guy or the spouse can be connected to this process.
How do men replace flowers?
Practical men take the care and feelings in some useful way. Think, perhaps completely working household appliances, not creaking doors, the dishwasher presented in time can replace the unexpected flowers presented without cause in your eyes. If you say to the man that you do not feel love from his party, and he goes and repairs the coffee maker because you love coffee, quite so he also shows the love. Just you express absolutely in languages unclear each other. Therefore it is important to talk without reproach to it about romanticism in your relations. Perhaps, it on it will work.
Practically any problems of the similar plan happen because of a lack of an informative talk. Just try to have a talk with the man, can be you learn a lot of new.
By the way, think when you gave to the guy or the husband something without cause. Women consider that gifts are a peculiar game in some gate. Meanwhile, to men exactly in the same degree, as to women, it is pleasant to receive courtesies. Try to present to the man some pleasant trifle, and you will see that he will not be in debt.