Even children know: to lie - it is bad. But life introduces the amendments and forces to understand that not any lie - crime and treachery.
For this reason before sobbing and be killed: ""The husband meyonya deceives!"", it is worth razoyobratsya why he lies and to react according to a specific situation.
Tendency to exaggeration
Some men are inclined to exaggerate, embellish, generally, creatively to approach statement of the facts. If your lyuyobimy returned from fishing and rasyoskazat what caught ""in - about-from such big fish"", you will not podniyomat an alarm? Is itIs it worth rasyostraivatsya and calling the husband lguyony, having heard from him: ""I to the friend on a half-hour - there and back!"" and ubeyodivshis that ""half-hour"" passed two hours ago...
How to react?
Connect humour! Knowing such feature of ""fisherman"", do not spend a neyorva to yourself and him. But at a resheyoniya of important questions not to a zayobudta to check all fakyota and to convince him to be extremely collected.
White lie
What is expected by the wife, asking a question: ""I recovered on 5 kg. Darling, it is very noticeable?" "or" "If you were invited to a sviyodaniye by Vera Brezhneva, you would poyoshet?"" Men perfectly know that the truth in these cases is not necessary to the zhenshchiyena therefore say what from them wait for and not that dumayot actually.
How to react?
Whether it is worth preuveyolichivat value of similar ""white lie""? If your husband neskolyyoko receded from the truth, sparing your feelings, whether so neobyokhodimo predjyavyolyat to him a pretenyoziya?
Avoiding the conflict
Do you remember what scandal you made to the husband when it zayoderzhatsya after work from a druyozyama? And how you told off him what it spent money in ""the neyotselevy way"", kuyopiv to itself(himself) a new spinning? The clever man will not report to you on the affairs any more to izbeyozhat family poyotryaseniye - he will just lie to you: ""NaYochalnik detained to a poyosla of work" ", " "The neighbor gave a spinning - it was not necessary to it"". In this situyoation you force to lie the man the kriticheyosky spirit and toyotalny control over his life.
How to react?
Understand that the kazhyody person needs ""freedom drink"" and to a peyorestanta to demand the report for each step. UbeYodite of the husband that otkroyovenny with you to him not to be dangerous: ""I know how meetings with friends are important for you, but I volyonovatsya when you zaderzhivayotsya for a long time!" ", " "I am glad that you have a new spinyoning now. But I wish next time you preduprezhyodat me about large purchases that we could splaniroyovat the family budget"". KogYoda the husband will cease opasatyyosya scandal in response to the frankness, it perestayont to you to lie.
Pathological falsity
The husband lies not only to you, but also all okruyozhayushchy - on trifles, largely and just like that? Most likely, such behavior zakrepiyolos at it since the childhood. Being afraid of punishment of strict mother (the teacher, schoolmates), it nauchilyosya to avoid the conflicts, masterly deceiving.
How to react?
Kind of you behaved, to correct the pathological liar almost nevozyomozhno. Therefore to you to solve whether to a smozheyota you to be happy near such man.