In the modern world in men not internal qualities, but ability to earn money are appreciated. Women dream to meet not only the smart and kind satellite, but also provided to all necessary. So really the greed moves all girls?
The modern world is oversaturated by information, it everywhere, and through television, the Internet certain stereotypes are imposed to the person. To marry rich, to receive at once everything available is a dream of girls, but only it is impossible to tell that it arose in the 21st century, such approach was relevant always. Just ladies chose not expensive restaurants or beautiful things, to them the solvency of the man, his ability to surpass rivals was important.
Evolution and the best of a look
Historically it developed that the man is stronger, than women. He was always a getter in family, was able to find and kill a mammoth. Later the world changed and instead of animals home began to bring money. The ability to earn shows the potential of the man, his opportunity and prospect. That who received more, the best women get. First, it can support them family, and secondly, from the best men great children are born.
The adult woman chooses to herself not only the partner in life, and the father of future children. To her conditions where she will give birth to them, and still opportunities for development of kids are important. These are instinctive requirements which are difficult for ignoring. Of course, the appearance of the man, his ability to behave, character have values, but all this does not help to provide family further. And here skills of interaction with people, ability to handle cash flows, opportunities give to see prospects and to realize a chance of the good future. And if the man realized all this, he cannot be poor. Security is not dinners at restaurants, the outer side of wealth is beautiful, but not it is main. It is important that money gives definiteness and stability. The woman to seek to strengthen the position that in safety to bring up new generation, without worrying that to support children it will not turn out.
Husband and superiority
Today women can make good money, have an opportunity to independently receive considerable means. But as before, girls look for support, a support and the adviser in the man. For this reason they wait that he will stand on one social ladder or above harmoniously to construct family. It is difficult to lady to rely on the one who is not able to do anything not in life, applies for bigger and a little in what is interested. Such satellite just does not cause positive emotions, cannot be a love object. The man has to show to children how to be implemented in society how to use knowledge how to earn and conquer peaks. If he is not able to do it, then the meaning of marriage is lost. The woman looks for the one who life of family is better, more convenient, but not just a burden which cannot reach something. Waits for support, and still wants to have an opportunity to lean on a strong shoulder at the time of emergence of difficulties. But if he is not a strong and reliable person, then why to build something together? Of course, sometimes a social framework wins. Sometimes voices of people around press too strongly, claiming that it is necessary to marry that the woman can be implemented only in family. And if only weak representatives of a strong half are near, then to choose to have from them. But hundreds of women throw then the men, understanding that it is better to be one, than with the one who will never be able to become a master of the situation.