Practically each family, probably, faced such problem when their children simply did not respect them. And how in such situation to force children to respect itself? How to influence them?
Scientists consider that the respect for seniors involves all good and kind acts. In case the child has no respect for parents and at all to seniors at all, then he tends to commission of bad acts.
More and more children cease to respect adults, and in particular the parents. Parents from the earliest age of life need to tell the child about the culture of communication with adults. So far parents really will not show that they can punish properly, any phrases, for example: "so do not talk to parents", will not help. And after you will show "who in the house the owner", from rudeness there will be no left no trace, and due to punishment there will quite be enough restrictions in the computer or the TV, well or in any influential restrictions.
For a start it is necessary to pay attention to the behavior and actions. It is necessary to reconsider the views, to pay attention to the speech, to remove nasty and boorish words from the speech, remembering that children follow an example of adults, but if you cannot get rid completely of such lexicon in any way, then get rid of such speech at least at the child. Instead begin to tell the children that it is necessary to give way to seniors in the bus, to address on "you" and not to interrupt during the conversation. These are elementary rules which prevent not negligence to the parents.
Important role in education of the child, occupies the relations in family. The father and mother have to treat with respect to each other, show parental authority to the children. When the child is rude to one of parents, the second should not treat it neutrally. First of all begin to teach the children to show gratitude without which not to reach respect. The grateful person appreciates other people including the parents.
Since the earliest years of boys it is necessary to learn to pass girls, women, grandmothers forward, in a suitable situation to open a door, to somewhere offer a hand, to help to inform of bags, to give way, generally, to be a man. Best of all at him it will turn out when he follows an example of the father or the grandfather. Children always look at first at the parents, and then arrive as they wish. Dad needs to show the respect for mom more often, to give some gifts, to show respect and love. For the girl mom has to become the faithful companion who will always support and will understand. Mom consults on the daughter so that she trusted her. You spend family evenings of times a week, they well strengthen the relation and trust.
The main thing, is correct to begin to bring up the child since the earliest years, and then in family there will be an order. Change and change the children