How often do you face that your child constantly imitates the favourite hero from the animated film? He does not sleep and does not eat, demanding constant presence of the idol. Or it is only safe hobby and with age will pass?
Collect a collection
In many network shops the actions which are followed by bright advertizing by a slogan take place: "Collect all collection". And most of children perceive this appeal as a guide to action. The child is sure that, without having received the next character from a collection, he loses something important. In a garden at many children it is already collected. The character is not interesting to the kid, it is important to it not to become the outsider. And in it the danger is: the consumer motivation begins to prevail over informative. In other words, the child is interested not in the history connected with toys, but their quantity. Maturing, he will be behind fashionable phone or branded sneakers in the forefront. If parents are not able to provide him the desirable, then it will be reflected in its self-assessment. Since early years he got used to measure success by quantity of "collection".
That to avoid it, parents need to stop thinking that without purchase of the next toy from the child the childhood happy will stop being or he will be worst in kindergarten. If the kid is fixated on some robots, then try to switch attention to other toys. Learn the history of creation of cubes, machines, designers or think up in common.
Narrow outlook
Happens and so that your child agrees to watch only animated films with the favourite hero or to listen to tales of it. Any more he wishes to see and hear nothing. As a result the children's outlook is narrowed and it becomes difficult to child to acquire the new information not related to the favourite character. In the subsequent he will refuse to learn letters without image of his idol and so on.
To help to carry away the child something new his favourite toy is capable. Seat on a crib of the child together with a toy and tell that she very much wants to listen to the new fairy tale, to watch the animated film. Be persistent and consecutive. At first the kid will be capricious, but numerous repetition of a request from a toy without increase in a voice will result in desirable result.
Better it is less
When in family the child appears, he becomes the center of life of all relatives and dear people. Parents load with presents him gifts. In their childhood there was no such variety. Careful grandmothers and grandfathers penetrate into technical characteristics of transformers, begin to understand designers, study doll fashion. At this moment the child begins to lose the value of new things. One machine broke, nothing, the grandfather will buy ten new. And, to return to the child the joy of a new toy, it is necessary to reduce their quantity. Let there will be not so many toys, but they will become desired again. Will interestingly play with them, but not to break.
Seeking to give to the child all we did not have that, we cultivate in him the consumer relation to everything. And it is important when the child grows up that he was guided not only material values, but also spiritual. Was grateful and patient.