In the course of education the parents impart to children necessary skills of politeness and communication, explain what is good and that is bad, but one more important moment is schooling of the child to discipline and responsibility. Only do not confuse with punishment, the discipline is a method to correct behavior of your child without shouts and aggression.
Instruction
1. Establish an accurate daily routine and try to adhere to it. The kid has to know that after evening bathing the dream follows, but not noisy games are a game of tag. The day regimen inspires in the child sense of stability and tranquility. Do not break a habitual daily routine without the reason, important on that, otherwise the kid will begin to be capricious, you already once made concessions, so will make it again.
2. Do not demand impossible. You have to be precisely sure that the child is able to follow your instructions. Presentation to children of requirements which they cannot execute offends and will wound children's mentality and also creates a conflict situation. Assign performance of a simple household chore to the kid or charge it care for a pet, so the kid will feel the importance and responsibility.
3. Define borders of legal. Establish reasonable and just requirements and restrictions, the kid has to know what the acceptable or unacceptable behavior consists in, so you will be able to avoid emergence in the child of feeling of injustice which children have when they are punished for mistakes and misses or for some accidental offense.
4. Be quiet and confident in the actions. Children feel doubts of parents at once and use it. Hysterics, disobedience and an open revolt – all this check of the parental authority and stability. If parents break on shout or show other signs weaknesses, the child simply ceases to see in them the reliable and deserving trust leaders. Keep calm and do not give in on provocation, here it is important not to be overzealous with discipline, after all on the first place there have to be a love and care.
5. Find time for the children, communicate with them, often everything to do disobedience and desire counter to parents is just a signal that children lack love and attention. Be near children, help and direct them on life. Kids who are familiar with discipline since early years adapt much easier and transfer unpleasant life situations.