Each parent in the period of teenage age of the child worries and tries though something to help. Actually, it is correct, depends much on parents how self-confident the child will enter new adulthood. And most often to girls, it is much heavier, than to boys to cross this barrier of growing.
And whether I am nice?
This question for young ladies the most relevant. They can consider long themselves in a mirror, and each heat-spot for them is the whole tragedy. Therefore parents first of all have to exclude any criticism to the daughter. Especially it concerns appearance and a figure. Everyone for certain knows that there are women, is perfect with imperceptible appearance which consider themselves beauties and from gentlemen have no release. And all this thanks to their wise parents.
The first love
Usually frightens parents: whether there will be injuries whether grandchildren will go. It is a high time to talk about contraception or at least to put on a foreground the book about it. Even if you the boy with whom your daughter is in love should be pleasant too actively "to open for her eyes". The daughter will just become isolated and will not share anything with you any more. Tell her about the first love better.
Search of
The matured children begin to unite in groups on interests. You will not always like the companies of the daughter, but the main thing that in them there was no danger to life and health. It also is it is a high time for conversations and disputes with the daughter. It is important that in them the respect for the young girl remained.
Oh this physiology
Teenage age — time of hormonal changes. The girl quickly grows, proportions of a body change. Only having noticed the first changes in the daughter, surely tell her what will happen to it every month. Buy laying in advance and explain how to use them.
I am already adult
At this time teenagers begin to show independence actively. Often girls begin to ignore the household chores which are already assigned to them. At this moment you need to show at the same time both persistence, and understanding. Remind the daughter what adults have not only privileges, but, first of all, additional responsibility. Surely grant to the daughter the right most to make decisions in some questions, but a lot of things have to remain under your control, you are responsible for her education and health.